Month: July 2021

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One of my favorite books from my childhood was Where The Wild Things Are. It’s a book about a misbehaving child who goes on nighttime adventures in a land of monsters.

You’re probably asking yourself, what on earth does this have to do with bankruptcy? Well, I’ll tell you…and it all relates to the last page of the book. 

When you get to the last page the young man in the book is back from his adventure and safe in bed.  This is when you realize that the so-called monster was just the size of a dust bunny under the bed.  

In other words, the size and ferocity of the monsters was blown out of proportion.  

Instead of being viscous, blood thirsty huge monsters, they were remarkably insignificant.  

I bring this up to point out that often, my clients let their imaginations run wild too.  This imaginary monster they think up keeps them from getting the help they need.  

The “monsters” of bankruptcy are entirely fictional. 

Many of my clients create monsters in their head.  They believe that when they file bankruptcy there are a number of horrible things that are just waiting to happen.

  • “They” will come to your house and take your home and everything in it.
  • You get dragged in front of a judge to explain why you “deserve” relief
  • You’ll never get credit again
  • You can’t get rid of tax debt, medical bills, credit cards or anything else


Every last bit of this is total garbage. 

People who are in distress believe the bad information they’re fed by creditors and so called “experts” on the internet. They let this bad information bounce around in their heads until they’ve blown it up so much that it consumes them and the fear paralyzes them.  

If only my clients could use their imagination the way Maurice Sendak did they’d never need my help. 

In truth, they just need good information.  Good information is real and it reassures them that they’re making the right choice.  

The pan of bankruptcy is self-inflicted. Beating yourself up 

But the truth is that when you have good information about how bankruptcy really works, the horrors are mostly made up.  The relief that is available is real and reassuring.

Most of the pain in bankruptcy is self-inflicted. You need help and you need it now.  Don’t beat yourself up and remember, the anguish you are putting yourself through doesn’t have to happen. 

When you’re ready to start down the road to financial peace, call me.

Who is eligible for VA DIC?


Certain family members are eligible for DIC, or Dependency Indemnity Compensation in the event of the death of a veteran.  In order to qualify for DIC, you have to be verified as a qualified survivor of a disabled veteran.   

Who’s actually eligible for DIC

  • A spouse:

A spouse is entitled to DIC if they were in a valid marriage with the deceased veteran.  Common law marriages generally don’t qualify unless the couple lived in a state where it was recognized.  The couple must also have been “free to marry” at the time of their marriage.  This means that if you were previously married, your previous marriage must have been annulled or ended with divorce or death. The VA will use technicalities like this to deny DIC to spouses.  

Another thing that must be established is that the veteran and their spouse must have been living together for at least one year prior to the veteran’s death if there were no children.  This is moot if there was.  This means that the veteran must not have been separated or estranged from the spouse.  There are obvious exceptions to this rule but the VA will look into all of these factors.  

  • A Dependent or surviving parent

Parents of any kind (natural, adoptive and step) can qualify for DIC if you acted as a parent for at least one year prior to the veteran’s military service.  The parent must have also been financially dependent on the veteran or have an income below a certain threshold to qualify. 

  • Children

Children (biological, adopted or step) of the veteran are also eligible for DIC.  The child mustn’t be married and must be under 18 (or 23 if in school). If you’re over 18 and want to claim DIC you must have been declared permanently unable to support yourself prior to your 18th birthday.  Grandchildren are also not eligible unless the veteran had legally adopted them.   

Generally speaking other family members are ineligible for DIC.  If you’re applying for DIC you’ll want to send in the documents that prove you’re eligible such as marriage certificates, birth certificates or proof that a child is in school.  

The process can be confusing and we’re here to help. If you’ve been denied DIC, give us a call to see how we can help. 

Dependency and Indemnity Compensation

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Our veterans deserve the best.  They’ve served honorably and given much of themselves.  This is especially true of deceased veterans.  If a veteran’s death was related to their service, those who survive the veteran may be eligible for Dependency and Indemnity Compensation from the VA.     

Dependency and Indemnity Compensation or DIC is for the survivors of veterans who died on or after January 1, 1957 and a program called death compensation is for survivors of veterans who died prior to that date.  

Because most people are looking for DIC benefits that’s where my focus will be in this post.  

The Circumstances around DIC

The VA will treat some claims as service connected and automatically grant DIC.  Those claims must fall under the “ten year rule.” That rule states that if a veteran was injured to the point that they were considered totally disabled for at least ten years, the survivor’s benefits will be granted and the death will be considered service related.         

For the “five year rule” to kick in the veteran must have been totally disabled for at least 5 years from the veteran’s release from active duty or discharge.  

The “one year rule” applies when the veteran was a POW and the disability was rated continuously as totally disabling for at least one year prior to death.  


In order to apply for DIC, a survivor must submit a VA form.  This form is 21P-534 if you’re a spouse or child and 21P-535 if you’re a parent.  All these VA forms are online and can easily be found by clicking on the links above or by doing a quick search. 

If you inadvertently use the wrong form, that’s ok.  The VA must interpret any application, whether through the VA or SSI as an application for DIC. 

There is no deadline to apply but the timing of the application can have significant impacts on how much you get paid and when.

If you file the application within the year of the veteran’s passing, the VA will pay the benefits back to the first day of the month after the death of the veteran.  If the application is submitted more than one year after the death of the veteran, the DIC payment will be backdated to the 1st day of the month in which the application was received.  

Other circumstances

If the rules I describe above don’t apply, we have to prove that one or more of the service related conditions the veteran was being compensated for contributed to his or her death.  Obviously, we need to look first at the death certificate. 

If the cause of death is related to a service connected ailment, the VA will likely grant benefits without a lot of problems.  

If the related condition is not the cause of death, then you have to look outside the box.  

There’s been litigation that has given Dependency and Indemnity Compensation to survivors when the veterans service related ailments exacerbated non service related ailments. 

In order to establish this, you have to talk to doctors, family members and others who were around the veteran in order to provide proof to the VA that the two were correlated. 

Finally, in order to actually take advantage of these programs, you have to be eligible.  This is more complicated than one would like to believe.  I’ll cover this in another blog in the future.

In the meantime, if you or any other veteran needs me, I’m always just a phone call away.